Wednesday, August 31, 2011

To the Attention of Ms. Valerie Wacks

Ms. Wacks,
This is your client. His name is Garrett. The recent photo is from August, 2011 though you may not recognize this little lad since it has been several months since you have visited him at his father's house. The last recount of you having visited Garrett in my home was ...well, you never have.  Pictured next to this dear boy is me, his mother and the one which you proclaim in a closed-door conference amongst attorneys, that you believe to be "too pretty that (she) thinks she can do whatever she wants".  A most-unprofessional accusation to make, I would have thought you to be of higher moral character than taking cheap and immature shots which can be interpreted (and rightly so) as partisan and subjective.  Though for some time I have thought you to be a impish person with a large, albeit  nonsensical opinion for the disdain of me without due cause - I am again saddened to "need" (use of the word need is being weened from this situation) your loud and obnoxious position within our situation. Why?

Because once again Garrett has climbed into my vehicle at the ending of a ridiculous visitation with Dad, with tears in his eyes. Stifling back his innate reaction to cry, he relays that he has had his things taken from him by Dad and told that they would either be "given to a poor family or burned". Most likely, they have already been destroyed. In addition to this, he holds his chest in the spot where he was punched by Dad after being told not to cry, less he gets "something to cry about". There was little to no warning in that situation from referenced "Dad". Beyond the chest pounding and the illegal seizure of my son's things (Please reference Order on Motion, dated April 9, 2009, page 4, which reads: "ORDERED  that Garrett shall be permitted by both parents to bring his belongings back and forth between households and shall be encouraged to bring items upon his expressing a desire to do so".  This allowance would be found directly above the notice to Dad to "not, under any circumstances, ride a motorcycle on a public highway with Garrett on the motorcycle or permit anyoen else to do so while Garrett is in his care...". The only reason I again refer to the motorcycle incident is due to the in his care clause. Sadly, Dad is unable, incapable, or completely unwilling to provide care for his son. I have witnessed this time and again. You, if you were any kind of decent, capable, and adept law guardian would too. For whatever the reason, you appear to be enamored with Dad and therefore, disregard and blatantly ill-advise (i.e. LIE) to the court of law which you are bound to uphold the mission of. This does not surprise me either because for six years and counting, you have failed your client to such a fault that he can verbalize your alliance to Dad with clarity. 

I have attempted to call you tonight and held my breath while doing so. You live not two miles from my own home and yet, have never stopped. I stopped counting the number of phone calls placed over six years when I got to 77.  I stopped thinking about how sickening your acting position is when you attempted to weasel your way into a situation which you knew/know nothing of outside of Dad's rantings. And yet still, after watching my child relay what could be into the triple digits of a story count for tales befallen him by his Dad, I called you.  Because YOUR JOB is to act as the voice for children that do not contain the vocabulary or comprehension of the unfortunate domestic situation(s) that their parents are in. Because you have taken (supposedly) an oath to Do No Harm to those same children and to speak with ease and comfort, to hear their limited vocabularies describe situations that a decent parent never wishes upon their child - and to then take that sullen story to a Judge who will make a conscious and clear-headed decision for the well-being of the child.

Yet, you fail. You have failed my child many times over and you continue still. You seek the admiration of a crowd you are not fit to stand before. Your lame attempts at vengeance and ill will toward me come as nothing other than a transference of hatred you must hold toward someone else. I can take it. Raised with accountability and responsibility; I can take it. My child; your client should not have to.
Your phone beeped without connection. You must not have power on the other side of the hill - so I stood there thinking of a way that I could get out the information that you absolutely need to heed.  Which brings me to the present: Life does not operate on a nine to five schedule. Most situations which you are charged to recount for the sake of any court of law occur either before or after such luxuries.  I do not expect you to suddenly decide to do the right thing because at half a decade's worth of time, you have neglected to do the right thing. What I do expect is for you to see that you are harming those same persons - children -  because of your obstinate comprehension of your duty and to therefore, remove yourself.  For a child of eight years old to accurately recount the whereabouts of your timely visits with his Dad...for him to be so discouraged at realizing what he told you in confidence, what you swore was between you and he - to watch you march directly to Dad and relay only the pertinent details keeping Dad in your favor - it is grotesque.  You are not there when the reactions hit. You are not there when he is pummeled for crying, hit for speaking, or mocked for knowing. And the most repulsive part? You do not seem to care. So please, do my son as well as any other child entrusted to your position as Law Guardian a huge favor: RESIGN.

You know my number,
Patricia

20 comments:

  1. If its the same valerie wacks i have im going through the same thing!!!!!

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    1. I am now going through the same troubles. I make phone call upon phone call and get no response. BUT she has had appointments with my daughter while her father is present.

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  2. Caryn,

    My sincere condolensces to you if this is indeed, the same person. She should not be allowed to practice what she consider's "her version of law". Contact me via email and we can discuss further if you'd like.
    -Non-Fiction

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  3. My life is being torn because I have this "lawyer" who seems to be on the other side, never contacts you until the "eleventh hour" and she does not CARE!!...Well about $$$$$$
    I need someone else!!!!! :(

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  4. I just wanted to post a more detailed opinion on this "lawyer" For me, Trish & hopefully noone else will be hurt by this monster, here goes,

    Right off the bat she tells you to give in, you won't win.
    She is NOT on the mothers side AT ALL, ONE BIT!
    She said my 12 yr old son has "no opinion" She waits until the morning of a court date, even if she has MONTHS to help you!
    She doesn't want to help at ALL, she wants to look good in the eyes of the court only. She has "tunnel vision"
    I know other people who she has ruined their lives as well.
    She is VERY UNHELPFUL. Her business voice mail is muffled and has dogs barking in the background. I BEG her to call me multiple times sometimes, she DOES NOT!!
    Also, she conveniently goes on vacation many times a year. (When you need her.) She doesn't care if the other party LIES on the stand, purgery.
    Furthermore, she doesn't do what you WANT her to do.
    She has made me feel like I have NO RIGHTS or that I do NOT matter, as well as my son!!
    I wouldn't let her represent my cats, let alone your child.

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  5. IF SHES THE MISS FRIZZLE LOOKING BITCH AND WORKS AT ULSTER COUNTY FAMILY COURT SHE IS MY LAWYER RIGHT NOW. JUDGE MCGINTY HAS BEEN VIOLATING MINE AND MY KIDS RIGHTS AND SHE REFUSES TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. SHE TELLS ME HES BIAS AGAINST ME AND DOES NOT LIKE ME BUT WONT FILE THE NECESSARY PAPER WORK TO REMOVE HIM FROM MY CASE. (CLASSIE CASSIE)SHE TOLD ME THE EXACT SAME THINGS AND REFUSES TO CALL ME BACK AT ALL I MEET HE THE MORNING OF COURT FOR MAYBE 2 MINUTES.I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH AND FEELING. I'VE BEEN DOING SOME RESEARCH ON LAWYER MISCONDUCT AND ITS A VIOLATION OF OUR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS I'M IN THE PROCESS OF FILING PAPER WORK WITH THE BAR ASSOCIATION FOR LAWYER MISCONDUCT. YOU ALL SHOULD DO THE SAME THING AND MAYBE WITH ALL OF OUR COMPLAINTS SHE WILL BE DISBARRED AND NO OTHER FAMILY WILL HAVE TO SUFFER FROM HER NEGLIGENCE. ALSO IF U BEEN HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MCGINTY LET ME KNOW AND MAYBE WE CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT HIM TO!!!! FEEL FREE TO RESPOND!!!

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    1. Caryn - Please contact me via email. You're right on track with what both Classy Cassy and I have dealt with. If I can be of any help (and I believe I can) - please contact me.

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  6. I would like to help also!!! Im going through this for the second time right now!!!!

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    1. @ Anonymous: here again - if I can be of any assistance, my email contact information is available through my blog. I'd be happy to assist.

      And ladies - you are all obviously strong and understanding of your family needs. Your approach to this dire situation needs to be one of that same strength and understanding.

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  7. Ok, I am now on the Wacks problem bandwagon, gang.
    Only I am a father, and Wacks has sided big-time with the mother of my child during a custody proceeding, and fkt up royally in her supposed representation of my child. So Wacks is an equal opportunity misrepresentor.
    I am at this point also in front of McGinty, but don't have much experience with him to have an opinion yet.
    However, you will all likely be happy to hear that I have filed a federal lawsuit against Wacks, which can be seen at www.Tinyurl.com/UlsterFederalLawsuit
    RSVP at will.

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  8. @GTriest - McGinty is fair, knowledgeable and has dealt with many a caseload that contend with the same issues that I'm guessing you're dealing with. Refrain from heresay, refrain from over-questioning the child(ren) involved - but do follow up with the inadequacies that may be occurring where it concerns the conduct of law guardian(s). The positioning of law guardians in court matters is very heavily weighted and as a parent, only you are fully aware of what your child needs.

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  9. Non-Fiction:

    Now I believe that Wacks has moved into the realm of actually participating and promoting parental alienation against me in my daughter's eyes.

    About a month and a half ago, my daughter told me she was scared of me, doesn't want to visit me or live with me, and that I beat her in 2010, and that I am a liar.
    I asked her why was she saying these things, and that it was untrue, did anyone tell her these things, and she said very clearly, Valerie told me those things about you.

    Prior to that, and about two weeks after that, she was telling me how much she loved me, and wanted to stay with me, kissing me and hugging me.
    It would appear that Valerie is intent on injecting false allegations of abuse into my child's mind against me as well.

    I believe that only a mentally ill person would stoop so low, as to intentionally try to strike fear and loathing into a child's mind against her father. I believe Valerie Wacks should be evaluated for mental stability, and has NO PLACE representing children in court.

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  10. I might add, I think that kind of behavior rised to the level of child abuse, and should be reported to child protective services.

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  11. Mr. Triest,
    Again, my condolensces to you for what I know is incredibly difficult to endure. Remember always, that your honesty and self-control will get you further than anything else when dealing with the courts. And there too, courts aside - you have your daughter to look out for. These situations are never easy and I know all too well the affects that one single person can have on our lives (reference above), yet I believe that it's important not to act or react against the 'system' but to consider your child first and go from there. I'm sure you do this already. If it is of any help, please do yourself a favor and keep a journal, a log, a recording...anything you can think of to continually monitor what your child says and does and at what times. Does she have these reactions when she returns from a visitation? Goes to a visitation? Is her body language different? Does she express that she's: afraid, scared, upset, etc.? And present that information when you've compiled a complete record of activities. Don't make it a show - afterall, you want to have as much time as possible with your daughter that is not affected by courts and legal mumbo-jumbo. You want that quality time with her, but also to reassure her that honesty is best.
    If there's anything else - possibly contact information for other parties in that area that might be able to assist you, please email me and I can forward you that information. I do feel for what you're going through. Stay calm. Stay true.

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  12. To all here, please view my interactions with Ulster County CPS:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIsnbUxAPhs

    Amazingly, Valerie Wacks is still "representing" my daughter.

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  13. She is a Joke! She never calls my wife. Follow my website and watch for a video I hope to get done today for YouTube. www.therightsofthefew.wordpress.com

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  14. My custody trial finally ended Feb 1 2016.
    Throughout the whole trial, Valerie Wacks misrepresented my daughter's wishes, and then as a coup-de-grace, Wacks just filed her Summation argument recommending that I never be allowed to see my daughter again, again pretending to speak for my daughter's wishes. Truly sickening.
    You can read Wacks' Summation argument here:
    https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6Rhjeg21YOvMVVJNVZtWnlTNEk/view?usp=sharing

    By comparison, you can also read my Summation Argument here:
    https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6Rhjeg21YOvODR6RGlwQ3Q5X3c/view?usp=sharing

    Feel free to RSVP me.

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